Fear of Intimacy
Even in childhood we fear being swallowed up by another person and losing our unique selves. We want to be independent with our own personalities, likes, dislikes, strengths, and even weaknesses. This is the first common relationship problem.
Fear of Change
Sometimes our relationship fears make us afraid our partner will change. Other times we fear he or she won't at all. Even good changes can be hard to deal with. When familiar habits and routines are changed, we feel a sense of unease because we have adjustments to make,new routines to create.
Fear of Abandonment
Most of us don't want to be alone and are dismayed at the thought of being rejected or abandoned. Even the healthiest people have some fear of abandonment. We know we could survive but life is better and easier with others. We fear being left due to death, rejection, illness, physical or even emotional distance.
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